>> Book Review: Don't sweat the small stuff for teens by Richard & Kris Carlson
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One of the printable version |
Hey there, I would like to share this series of book with you guys. I know this have been quite a craze lately and therefore head down to nearest library to borrow this!
Pretty good read so far, loving it! Mostly related, or somewhat I feel the author know my whole teenage life. AND YEA, I know I am not longer a teen. Trying to catch the glimpse of a teen before it officially flew past me.
Here's some extract I would share with you.
3. Don't sweat the breakups
"... but if not for breakups, all of us would marry the very first person we were ever interested in! And obviously in most cases, that's not in our best interests."
"When you put breakups into perspective, it's a little easier to spend less energy mourning relationships that are over and, instead spend that same energy appreciating them. With appreciation, it's much easier to focus on the gifts of the relationship- the memories, growth and fun you shared, while at the same time letting go and moving on; realizing that, as painful as it might be, you will love again"
4. Practice mental Aikido
"It's important to know that mental Aikido doesn't necessarily mean you always back down or agree with someone else's point of view. Instead, it involves selecting the perfect peaceful response, whatever that might be."
6.Check out the odds!
"I've learnt that, while I have no control over who will be nice to me and who will like me, it's always the case that the exact people I need in my life will show up and be there for me."
"... - only they don't seem to feel the same way. It doesn't bother me too much anymore, however, because I've accepted the fact that not all people will feel the same way I want them to."
The first two extracts are more of a mental note for me, while the last is totally relate-able! I ALWAYS feel sad when a friendship ended or the other half isn't as responsive as I did, I guess I can't control how people feel about others. And we should look forward in life and treasure what we already have!
**: Ohmygosh! I didn't know relatable is not an English word! See, one thing I learn from writing today!